First we compute the tangent plane to the ellipsoid at a general point (x0 , y0 , z0 ). The ellipsoid is the level set of f (x, y, z) = x2 + y2 + 2z2 for the value 1. Thus
∇f (x, y, z) = 2xi + 2yj + 4zk
and the tangent plane is given by
because the point (x0 , y0 , z0 ) is assumed to lie on the ellipsoid and thus satisfies x20 + y20 + 2z20 = 1. The question become, for which (x0 , y0 , z0 ) are the planes x0 x + y0 y +2z0 z = 1 and x +2y +z = 1 parallel. Two planes are parallel, if the normal vectors are parallel. So there must exist λ ≠ 0, such that
x0 = λ
y0 = 2λ
2z0 = λ,
and because x20 + y20 + 2z20 = 1, also